Force by rejection

Everyone is forcing others to do, behave, speak and other, in accordance with what they feel that everything should be.  Why can we not let the others about theirs and let our own be enough.  Do we really believe that we will gain anything by judging and rejecting others and everything they stand for?  Or are we just fleeing ourselves, flee it to face ourselves, flee it to accept ourselves as we are, no matter what we name it?  These judgments and rejections are everywhere, no matter where we look, there it is.  Why can we not let go of our importance and only be?  What is it that we fear so much?  Is it others we fear or maybe ourselves?  This is the content of chapter 31.